Wanted to comment on the neighbor hospitality stuff. I guess to some degree it might matter what you are calling “the suburbs” and “in the city,” but I also think it isn’t that clear cut no matter where you are talking about. I’ve been in Highland Park in my house now for 11 years, and have always had a good relationship with my neighbors. I know/ and have known most everyone by name, and we often chat when we see each other on the street. We all have small front yards, and so, often in the summer, while watering plants or whatever in the yard, we will talk. Before that, I was in Lawrenceville in the same apartment for 8+ years. There too, I knew most of the people on my street. I wonder if some of it has to do with renting vs owning. I wonder if people who own are likely to be more outgoing/welcoming/friendly than renters are. I was renting in Lawrenceville, but most of the neighbors I knew by name all owned. I think of the suburbs are being way ouyt there, like My Lebanon, North Hills, Shaler. I grew up out in Whitehall, and I wouldn’t want to live there again for a millions dollars. If I were to leave Highland Park, I’d want to stay in or close to the city- Bloomfield, back to Lawrenceville (I still regret leaving my wonderful studio space) or other areas like that.If I win the lottery, we are getting a house up on Mt Washington.